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A Lost Romantic Art: Write A Love Letter

Needing something to surprise your lady or man? 

Why not try to surprise them with a, dare I even say it, love letter. 

In this day of electronic tools to communicate there's no doubt a love letter will carry an element of surprise. 

And hey, it's a little romantic. 

Do you want to find the best love letters to write to a boyfriend or girlfriend? 

You can always go online and do a search for love letters, but I think that when it comes to matters of the heart, the best thing to do is to have it come straight from your heart.

So many people get caught up on the details and a lot of the passion is lost when you do that. 

Instead, just sit down with a pen and paper, or a computer, and write. 

Don't worry, you can go back later and make any changes or corrections you need to make, but for now just write down everything that comes to your mind when you think of them.

Bare in mind is that this letter is just for them. 

Try to keep it real, of course, but also make it personal. 

Include things that they would like to hear. 

Most guys like a little spice in the love letters they get. 

Women tend to like more romance, men are more moved by sexy love letters.

I'm not saying you should 'talk dirty' in your letter, but you may want to include a little bit of sexy teasing. 

In most cases that will really get them going.

You know your man or woman better than anyone else so you have to determine the way you want to let them know you love them. 

You have to remember that the letter is to let him know how you feel, but it should be written in a way that will make it more personal.

If they like poetry, for example, try to find a line or two from a poem you know they like. 

If it's some other form of literature include some passage or something from their favorite book. 

That will allow you to express your love in more than just words.

You can add things like that you are letting them know that you pay attention to what they say and what they like. They'll see that you really do love them because you're willing to take some time and make everything special, even your love letters.

If you really wanted to get fancy, you could even record a love letter and / or make a short video 'love letter'.  

What you put in the video is up to you (however if you're thinking of posing nude you may want to reconsider. 

Who doesn't like to feel loved and special. 

If you want to show your boyfriend or girlfriend just how much they mean to you and you want to know what love letters to write to your friend just remember two basic ingredients: your love and their interests. 

Combining those things will allow you to show them just how special they really are. And let them feel that you've made a special effect to express your feelings for them in the lost art of writing a love letter.
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Neil Smith has written extensively on life (and how to deal with it) including 3 non-fiction books and numerous blogs. To read more about his books CLICK HERE.
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